Fraternity: The Lost Brotherhood

One of the lists that has been lost among men in today’s society is the importance of fraternity. Having close male friends is not considered nearly as important as faith, family, and fitness.  The effect this has had on modern masculinity has been disastrous. Men simply don’t have close, intimate friends anymore.  Sure, they haveContinue reading “Fraternity: The Lost Brotherhood”

Why A Man Needs A Family

After a man’s faith, his family is the next most important thing in his life.  They are who he loves, why he does what he does, and will give him more happiness than anything else he can possibly do in his life. A man needs a family.  True masculinity requires a family.  All of theContinue reading “Why A Man Needs A Family”

The Night It Almost Came Crashing Down

I’m going to share some brutal honesty and openness here. A few nights ago, everything almost came crashing down. I got a text from a girl I used to hook up with.   I had long ago deleted numbers from my phone, but I knew who it was.  It wasn’t even anything suggestive.  It was aContinue reading “The Night It Almost Came Crashing Down”

Is Porn Cheating?

I recently posted a poll on social media asking a question that often comes up when discussing pornography addiction: Is porn cheating? Here are the results from Twitter: The results from Facebook were 68% YES and 32% NO.  Facebook is mostly people I know personally, so I’m not surprised the numbers are skewed one way.Continue reading “Is Porn Cheating?”

Faith Comes First

A man without faith is a man without purpose, without hope, and without peace.   We are all searching for God.  Many of us just don’t realize it.   “The man who knocks on the brothel door is knocking for God.” – Michael John Cusick, Surfing For God. We may seek God in pornography or in sex addictionContinue reading “Faith Comes First”

When Tragedy Strikes

Nothing in this life is guaranteed. Not even tomorrow is guaranteed to us. Not one of us will get through life without facing some sort of tragedy or hardship. So what are we to do when tragedy strikes? Recently, there have been tragedies that have affected my church family.  While not directly affecting me, theContinue reading “When Tragedy Strikes”

PORN FREE Resource List

Since starting this blog, I have had many people message me looking for resources to help battling porn and sex addiction.  So I thought I would list out a few resources and books that I’ve found helpful. I am also a resource.  I’m a man who’s been through the battle, is still in the battle,Continue reading “PORN FREE Resource List”

Become a Bookworm

“I cannot live without books” – Thomas Jefferson I believe the most underrated and under-appreciated way to improve your life is through books.  I have been an avid reader my entire life. Both of my parents were readers and instilled that value in me. However, far too many men do not read at all.  TheyContinue reading “Become a Bookworm”

Screenless Sundays

Taking on the “Into The Wilderness” challenge is going to push you outside of the way the rest of the world operates.  I often reference Romans 12 when it says, “Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think.”  WeContinue reading “Screenless Sundays”

The Silent Cancer

There is something silently running rampant through today’s society.  It is ruining marriages, destroying families, and weakening men. And not enough people are even talking about it let alone fighting against it.   This secret cancer of which I speak is porn.   Pornography use in the world today is an epidemic.   Gone are theContinue reading “The Silent Cancer”