What Kind of Father Are You?

What kind of father are you? Are you the kind of father who is present, engaged, teaching, disciplining and loving? Or are you the type of father who is absent, unstable, weak, and effeminate? Pope John XXIII wrote,  “It is easier for a father to have children than for children to have a real father.”Continue reading “What Kind of Father Are You?”

Failure Is Not An Option

My favorite movie is Apollo 13. I was about 10 when it came out and I was obsessed with NASA and space.  There’s a scene in the film where Flight Director, Gene Kranz, played by Ed Harris, is talking to his controllers about options for bringing the three astronauts safely home after their spaceship wasContinue reading “Failure Is Not An Option”

Make Yourself Uncomfortable

How comfortable are you right now? Are you lounging on the couch?  Lying in bed?  Sitting at your desk? I hope you aren’t driving while you read this.   Ask yourself, when was the last time you were uncomfortable.  I don’t mean when was the last time that tag on your t-shirt bothered you.  I meanContinue reading “Make Yourself Uncomfortable”

What To Do When Faced With A Trigger?

We’ve all been there. You’ll be doing great in you’re battle with porn and sex addiction.  You’re not spending too much time on your phone or computer.  You’re keeping grounded in prayer, Scripture, and meditation.  You’re checking in regularly with your support system and accountability partner. Them BAM! Something comes out of nowhere and allContinue reading “What To Do When Faced With A Trigger?”

Be A Chad

This past week, a very interesting comment on a PornHub video went viral throughout the NoFap community.   It was a comment by someone with the unfortunate username of Chad Thundercock.  While I can’t really congratulate Chad on his selection of a screen name, his comment was excellent.  PornHub does not screen its users.  Anyone atContinue reading “Be A Chad”

Beware Your Dark Side

If a kingdom is divided against itself, that kingdom cannot stand – Mark 3:24 Are you where you want to be in life? How many of us reach the ages of 30, 40, or 50 and have accomplished even half of what we thought we would? As children, we all imagine ourselves changing the worldContinue reading “Beware Your Dark Side”

Timothy Reigle Coaching

We all need a little help sometimes.  Overcoming addiction to pornography and sex is not something you will be able to do on your own.  You cannot just “man up” and quit.  Trust me, I tried. You need the strength and grace of God to with this battle. You also need warriors to fight alongsideContinue reading “Timothy Reigle Coaching”

How To Avoid A Quarantine Relapse

It’s amazing how quickly the world can change.  A few weeks ago, we were going about our lives in a relatively normal manner, and now many of us are confined to an at-home quarantine to avoid spreading the COVID-19 virus.   As for me, I’m still working.  People aren’t going to stop dying and someone hasContinue reading “How To Avoid A Quarantine Relapse”

Make Your Bed

In a now-famous commencement address given at the University of Texas in 2014, Admiral William H. McRaven told the graduates if they wanted to change the world, to start by making their bed. “If you make your bed every morning you will have accomplished the first task of the day. It will give you aContinue reading “Make Your Bed”

Is Porn A Gateway Drug?

Looking back on the many years that I battled with sexual addiction, I sometimes wonder, ”Where did it all begin?” Was there some traumatic event that sparked it?  When was I first exposed to sexual sin? What got me hooked? The answer is porn.  It may have started innocently enough.  I was a hormonal, curiousContinue reading “Is Porn A Gateway Drug?”