That Hurts! How Healing Comes Through Embracing Pain.

What causes the worst pain in your life? I don’t necessarily mean physical pain as in stubbing your toe or breaking your arm. I mean what causes the most emotional pain? What are some things in your life that you have a hard time dealing with?  What are some things that you’re unwilling to faceContinue reading “That Hurts! How Healing Comes Through Embracing Pain.”

Great Men Need Great Mentors

Look at almost every great man throughout history and you’ll find a common thread among them.  They had a mentor. Plato had Socrates, Abraham Lincoln had Henry Clay, even Michael Jordan had Phil Jackson. We all need a mentor.  I was fortunate to have several men who came into my life and saw me forContinue reading “Great Men Need Great Mentors”

Are There False Idols In Your Life?

This weekend, many people across the world are confined to their homes by the COVID-19 virus and subsequent shutdown of most of society. We’ve all found ourselves with a lot of free time on our hands. Things we used to spend copious amounts of time and energy on have been taken away.   Since so manyContinue reading “Are There False Idols In Your Life?”

Who Is Your Best Friend?

I’ve been talking about friendship quite often recently. It’s an important aspect of men’s lives that very often gets overlooked. Men have buddies, but it’s becoming rare to have close, intimate friendships. One comment that has come up repeatedly in my discussions with men regarding friendship is the statement, “my wife is my best friend.”Continue reading “Who Is Your Best Friend?”

Fraternity: The Lost Brotherhood

One of the lists that has been lost among men in today’s society is the importance of fraternity. Having close male friends is not considered nearly as important as faith, family, and fitness.  The effect this has had on modern masculinity has been disastrous. Men simply don’t have close, intimate friends anymore.  Sure, they haveContinue reading “Fraternity: The Lost Brotherhood”

Why A Man Needs A Family

After a man’s faith, his family is the next most important thing in his life.  They are who he loves, why he does what he does, and will give him more happiness than anything else he can possibly do in his life. A man needs a family.  True masculinity requires a family.  All of theContinue reading “Why A Man Needs A Family”

Is Porn Cheating?

I recently posted a poll on social media asking a question that often comes up when discussing pornography addiction: Is porn cheating? Here are the results from Twitter: The results from Facebook were 68% YES and 32% NO.  Facebook is mostly people I know personally, so I’m not surprised the numbers are skewed one way.Continue reading “Is Porn Cheating?”

PORN FREE Resource List

Since starting this blog, I have had many people message me looking for resources to help battling porn and sex addiction.  So I thought I would list out a few resources and books that I’ve found helpful. I am also a resource.  I’m a man who’s been through the battle, is still in the battle,Continue reading “PORN FREE Resource List”

Become a Bookworm

“I cannot live without books” – Thomas Jefferson I believe the most underrated and under-appreciated way to improve your life is through books.  I have been an avid reader my entire life. Both of my parents were readers and instilled that value in me. However, far too many men do not read at all.  TheyContinue reading “Become a Bookworm”