Are There False Idols In Your Life?

This weekend, many people across the world are confined to their homes by the COVID-19 virus and subsequent shutdown of most of society. We’ve all found ourselves with a lot of free time on our hands. Things we used to spend copious amounts of time and energy on have been taken away.   Since so manyContinue reading “Are There False Idols In Your Life?”

Who Is Your Best Friend?

I’ve been talking about friendship quite often recently. It’s an important aspect of men’s lives that very often gets overlooked. Men have buddies, but it’s becoming rare to have close, intimate friendships. One comment that has come up repeatedly in my discussions with men regarding friendship is the statement, “my wife is my best friend.”Continue reading “Who Is Your Best Friend?”

Fraternity: The Lost Brotherhood

One of the lists that has been lost among men in today’s society is the importance of fraternity. Having close male friends is not considered nearly as important as faith, family, and fitness.  The effect this has had on modern masculinity has been disastrous. Men simply don’t have close, intimate friends anymore.  Sure, they haveContinue reading “Fraternity: The Lost Brotherhood”

Why A Man Needs A Family

After a man’s faith, his family is the next most important thing in his life.  They are who he loves, why he does what he does, and will give him more happiness than anything else he can possibly do in his life. A man needs a family.  True masculinity requires a family.  All of theContinue reading “Why A Man Needs A Family”

Is Porn Cheating?

I recently posted a poll on social media asking a question that often comes up when discussing pornography addiction: Is porn cheating? Here are the results from Twitter: The results from Facebook were 68% YES and 32% NO.  Facebook is mostly people I know personally, so I’m not surprised the numbers are skewed one way.Continue reading “Is Porn Cheating?”

PORN FREE Resource List

Since starting this blog, I have had many people message me looking for resources to help battling porn and sex addiction.  So I thought I would list out a few resources and books that I’ve found helpful. I am also a resource.  I’m a man who’s been through the battle, is still in the battle,Continue reading “PORN FREE Resource List”

Become a Bookworm

“I cannot live without books” – Thomas Jefferson I believe the most underrated and under-appreciated way to improve your life is through books.  I have been an avid reader my entire life. Both of my parents were readers and instilled that value in me. However, far too many men do not read at all.  TheyContinue reading “Become a Bookworm”

The Silent Cancer

There is something silently running rampant through today’s society.  It is ruining marriages, destroying families, and weakening men. And not enough people are even talking about it let alone fighting against it.   This secret cancer of which I speak is porn.   Pornography use in the world today is an epidemic.   Gone are theContinue reading “The Silent Cancer”

My Story

The time must come in every man’s life where he looks himself in the mirror and decides to take charge.  For men in generations past, there was always a definitive moment for that to happen. They would go off to war, they would have to take on the responsibility of providing for their family atContinue reading “My Story”