Want To Start A Family…Do These 5 Things NOW

After almost 15 years, I have an amazing marriage, but it wasn’t always that way.  There are so many things I could have done to make my marriage great from the start.  I want you to learn from my mistakes.  Here are FIVE things every single guy should do BEFORE Marriage.. 1. FIND YOUR MISSION: Continue reading “Want To Start A Family…Do These 5 Things NOW”

God Wants Men To Do These 5 Things

There are 100’s of passages of Scripture on the role of men in the church, family and society. But there’s only ONE passage that sums it all up. “Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong. Let all that you do be done in love.” 1 Corinthians 16:13-14 While other passagesContinue reading “God Wants Men To Do These 5 Things”

THIS… Is The Most Ignored Sin

What is the one sin that is most ignored by Christians today??? It’s not Porn It’s not Sex It’s not Alcohol It’s not Lying or Greed or Envy This is SO common in the church, not only do they ignore it, they glorify it! I’m speaking of Obesity. Look around your church this Sunday. Do youContinue reading “THIS… Is The Most Ignored Sin”

When To Talk To Your Kid About Porn

One of the most common questions I get is, “At what age should I talk to my son about porn?” The fact that you’re even willing to talk about it at all is itself a step in the right direction.  This is an essential conversation that must take place.  The question is WHEN? I believeContinue reading “When To Talk To Your Kid About Porn”

Can You Handle The Truth?

In the film A Few Good Men, starring Tom Cruise and Jack Nicholson, there’s a famous scene where Cruise’s character, Navy JAG attorney Lt. Daniel Kaffee is questioning Nicholson’s character, Marine Colonel Nathan Jessup during a court martial trial for the murder of a Marine.   In the scene, Kaffee demands that Jessup tell the truth,Continue reading “Can You Handle The Truth?”

How To Keep The “Fire” Alive In Marriage

Many people wonder, “Where did the “fire” go in my my marriage?” “What happened to the spark?” Remember the wedding day? On that day, you’re full of love for her.  You’re burning with passion.  The emotions are high and you could never imagine not loving this person with every fiber of your being.   Fast forwardContinue reading “How To Keep The “Fire” Alive In Marriage”

Follow The Leader: What Men Need To Be Effective Leaders

Do you want to be a leader? Most men do.  It’s wired into us.   Man was born to be a leader.  We are designed to lead our families.  We are expected to lead our churches.  In almost every aspect of life, it is the duty of men to lead. From the beginning of creation, manContinue reading “Follow The Leader: What Men Need To Be Effective Leaders”

Progress Over Perfection

There’s one phrase that I repeat over and over again to the men that I coach.   “Two steps forward, one step back, is still moving forward.” The point is that just because you might be falling short sometimes, doesn’t mean you aren’t making progress.   If you’re fighting, if you’re working hard, if you’re determined,Continue reading “Progress Over Perfection”

Who Wears The Pants? 10 Ways Men Must Lead Their Families

Who “wears the pants” in your family? If the answer is not unquestionably you, you’re failing as a man.  Masculinity begets leadership.  Masculinity IS leadership.  Man was born to lead.  This is his purpose, his duty, and where he finds fulfillment.   Men, it is your job to lead your family.  It is not your wife’s. Continue reading “Who Wears The Pants? 10 Ways Men Must Lead Their Families”