Want To Start A Family…Do These 5 Things NOW
After almost 15 years, I have an amazing marriage, but it wasn’t always that way. There are so many things I could have done to make my marriage great from the start. I want you to learn from my mistakes. Here are FIVE things every single guy should do BEFORE Marriage.. 1. FIND YOUR MISSION: […]
God Wants Men To Do These 5 Things
There are 100’s of passages of Scripture on the role of men in the church, family and society. But there’s only ONE passage that sums it all up. “Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong. Let all that you do be done in love.” 1 Corinthians 16:13-14 While other passages […]
How To Confess Your Porn Addiction
So, you have come to the realization that porn and sex addiction is a problem in your life. Maybe you’ve even started working with a coach to help guide you through the process of breaking free. What’s next? One of the hardest parts of recovery, but arguably the most necessary is confession. Healing requires confession. […]
Can You Handle The Truth?
In the film A Few Good Men, starring Tom Cruise and Jack Nicholson, there’s a famous scene where Cruise’s character, Navy JAG attorney Lt. Daniel Kaffee is questioning Nicholson’s character, Marine Colonel Nathan Jessup during a court martial trial for the murder of a Marine. In the scene, Kaffee demands that Jessup tell the truth, […]
How I Quit Porn: My Story of Recovery, Redemption, and Renewal
It was a long road that lead me to becoming the man I am today. I’ve been through darkness, despair, and depression. I’ve faced trials, tests, and troubles. Yet, I came out on top of it all. This is the story of how I got unbelievably deep in to a devastating Porn […]
How To Keep The “Fire” Alive In Marriage
Many people wonder, “Where did the “fire” go in my my marriage?” “What happened to the spark?” Remember the wedding day? On that day, you’re full of love for her. You’re burning with passion. The emotions are high and you could never imagine not loving this person with every fiber of your being. Fast forward […]
Am I Unforgivable?
When you struggle with an addiction to porn and sex, you are often your own worst enemy. You feel shameful for your actions. You’re filled with regret. Then your negative feelings eventually drive you back to the porn that caused them in the first place. Around and around you go. It may feel like you’re […]
Shhh!!! Don’t Talk About That!
People do a lot of talking these days. They talk about politics, religion, sports, the weather, what they’re binge-watching. People are more than happy to gab your ear off about their opinions and how they think things should be. They’ll tell you all about their lives but never once ask you about yours. They […]
Who Is Your Nathan?
Who Is Your Nathan? Many of us are familiar with the story of King David and Bathsheba. In the account described in the Bible, King David saw Bathsheba bathing on a roof and was immediately filled with intense lust for her. He committed adultery with her knowing that she was married. When she became pregnant, […]
How To Restore Trust After Porn Addiction
One of the most damaging effects of porn addiction is the destruction of trust it causes in relationships. While I do not believe that Porn Addiction itself rises to the level of Adultery or Cheating, it does break the trust established and leads to feelings of betrayal. Wives are often left feeling broken, hurt, […]