How To Confess Your Porn Addiction

So, you have come to the realization that porn and sex addiction is a problem in your life.  Maybe you’ve even started working with a coach to help guide you through the process of breaking free.   What’s next? One of the hardest parts of recovery, but arguably the most necessary is confession. Healing requires confession. Continue reading “How To Confess Your Porn Addiction”

How To Break The Relapse Cycle

Tell me if this sounds familiar… You realize that porn is a problem in your life and you decide to quit.  You are motivated and determined to stop this.  This is finally the time that you’re going to quit for good.   It starts ok.  You get a few days in.  Things are going great.  YouContinue reading “How To Break The Relapse Cycle”

Introducing the Into The Wilderness Podcast

After months of preparation and hard work, I’m excited to announce the launch of the Into The Wilderness Podcast with Timothy Reigle! I am taking my ministry of battling men’s porn addiction and expanding it into other topics that modern Christian men need to talk about but where there are few spaces to do so.  Continue reading “Introducing the Into The Wilderness Podcast”

How I Quit Porn: My Story of Recovery, Redemption, and Renewal

It was a long road that lead me to becoming the man I am today.   I’ve been through darkness, despair, and depression.   I’ve faced trials, tests, and troubles. Yet, I came out on top of it all.   This is the story of how I got unbelievably deep in to a devastating PornContinue reading “How I Quit Porn: My Story of Recovery, Redemption, and Renewal”

When It’s Time To Pull The Plug

It’s time to pull the plug. Our lives are too constrained by calendars, too controlled by devices, and too hampered by the indoors.   I recently took two full weeks off of work and headed to the mountains.  There was no cell service, no internet, and no television.  It was just me and my family.   WeContinue reading “When It’s Time To Pull The Plug”

Am I Unforgivable?

When you struggle with an addiction to porn and sex, you are often your own worst enemy. You feel shameful for your actions.  You’re filled with regret.  Then your negative feelings eventually drive you back to the porn that caused them in the first place.   Around and around you go. It may feel like you’reContinue reading “Am I Unforgivable?”

Shhh!!! Don’t Talk About That!

People do a lot of talking these days. They talk about politics, religion, sports, the weather, what they’re binge-watching.   People are more than happy to gab your ear off about their opinions and how they think things should be.  They’ll tell you all about their lives but never once ask you about yours.  TheyContinue reading “Shhh!!! Don’t Talk About That!”

How To Use The Power of Visualization To See Your Goals

One of the best tools you can utilize to find success is to visualize your goals.   Visualization allows you to see in your mind’s eye what you are working toward.  It allows you to see the end of the battle before you get there.   Take a few minutes today and do this exercise: I wantContinue reading “How To Use The Power of Visualization To See Your Goals”

What is the Price of Porn?

What is the Price of Porn? In most cases today, it’s free.  Anyone with an internet connection can log on and find hardcore porn in seconds.  The days of paying for a magazine, renting a movie, or going to an adult theater are long over.  Porn is Free. Or is it? Porn has a muchContinue reading “What is the Price of Porn?”

Training Your Toddler To Battle Porn

Today we have a guest post from my friend Michael Foster. Michael is a pastor and Managing Director of It’s Good To Be A Man, a ministry to extend God’s house & father-rule, by helping men to establish their own houses in strength, workmanship & wisdom. He is also the father of seven children.  Follow him on Twitter @thisisfoster orContinue reading “Training Your Toddler To Battle Porn”