In overcoming my own 15+ year battle with porn and addiction, and in helping dozens of other men finally quit porn, I’ve learned quite a bit about what works and what doesn’t work when you’re trying to quit porn. Here’s some DO’s and DON’Ts for quitting porn. DO: Establish Routine Routine is crucial to quittingContinue reading “The DOs and DON’Ts of Battling Porn Addiction”
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Stop Touching Yourself!
Alright guys. It’s time for a tough talk. The real problem with Porn Addiction isn’t Porn. It’s Masturbation. STOP TOUCHING YOURSELF! When you’re addicted to Porn/Masturbation/Orgasm (PMO), what you’re really addicted to is dopamine. There is nothing inherently addictive about porn itself. It’s not a drug. it’s not a chemical. It has no addictive qualitiesContinue reading “Stop Touching Yourself!”
When To Talk To Your Kid About Porn
One of the most common questions I get is, “At what age should I talk to my son about porn?” The fact that you’re even willing to talk about it at all is itself a step in the right direction. This is an essential conversation that must take place. The question is WHEN? I believeContinue reading “When To Talk To Your Kid About Porn”
Can You Handle The Truth?
In the film A Few Good Men, starring Tom Cruise and Jack Nicholson, there’s a famous scene where Cruise’s character, Navy JAG attorney Lt. Daniel Kaffee is questioning Nicholson’s character, Marine Colonel Nathan Jessup during a court martial trial for the murder of a Marine. In the scene, Kaffee demands that Jessup tell the truth,Continue reading “Can You Handle The Truth?”
How I Quit Porn: My Story of Recovery, Redemption, and Renewal
It was a long road that lead me to becoming the man I am today. I’ve been through darkness, despair, and depression. I’ve faced trials, tests, and troubles. Yet, I came out on top of it all. This is the story of how I got unbelievably deep in to a devastating PornContinue reading “How I Quit Porn: My Story of Recovery, Redemption, and Renewal”
Am I Unforgivable?
When you struggle with an addiction to porn and sex, you are often your own worst enemy. You feel shameful for your actions. You’re filled with regret. Then your negative feelings eventually drive you back to the porn that caused them in the first place. Around and around you go. It may feel like you’reContinue reading “Am I Unforgivable?”
Shhh!!! Don’t Talk About That!
People do a lot of talking these days. They talk about politics, religion, sports, the weather, what they’re binge-watching. People are more than happy to gab your ear off about their opinions and how they think things should be. They’ll tell you all about their lives but never once ask you about yours. TheyContinue reading “Shhh!!! Don’t Talk About That!”
What is the Price of Porn?
What is the Price of Porn? In most cases today, it’s free. Anyone with an internet connection can log on and find hardcore porn in seconds. The days of paying for a magazine, renting a movie, or going to an adult theater are long over. Porn is Free. Or is it? Porn has a muchContinue reading “What is the Price of Porn?”
Stop Believing These 10 Lies About Porn
Lies and deception are everywhere in today’s world. We believe many lies about health, politics, religion, love, and more. Lies are spread to advance an agenda. Lies are told to keep the truth from being known. Lies are spread to justify bad behavior. I can think of few places where more lies are spread thanContinue reading “Stop Believing These 10 Lies About Porn”
What Are You REALLY Addicted To?
We use the term “Addiction” a lot these days. In fact, we probably over-use the term. In many ways, we’ve degraded the seriousness of addiction by using it to describe things that aren’t really an addiction. “I’m addicted to chocolate.” I’m addicted to this TV show.” There’s even the classic, yet cringy, song “Addicted ToContinue reading “What Are You REALLY Addicted To?”