Is Masturbation Ok?
Hardly a day goes by when I do not receive a message or an email from someone asking something like this, “I have gone X days without watching porn, but I still masturbate regularly. Is that ok?” Is masturbation without porn ok? Unfortunately, there isn’t really a simple yes or no answer to that question. […]
NOW AVAILABLE! Living Porn Free: 10 Steps to Recovery, Redemption, and Renewal
It has never been easy for me to open up about my battle with pornography addiction. I hid it for years and was ashamed to let anyone know what was going on in my secret life. However, God had different plans for me. I was hesitant, but every time I obeyed and shared my story, […]
The New Drug Epidemic
We have a major drug epidemic in the world right now. No, it’s not opioids. (Although this is a major problem) It’s not crack It’s not meth It’s not weed. In fact, you can’t even buy this drug on the streets. Why? Because you produce it inside your own body. It is Dopamine. The world […]
Be A Chad
This past week, a very interesting comment on a PornHub video went viral throughout the NoFap community. It was a comment by someone with the unfortunate username of Chad Thundercock. While I can’t really congratulate Chad on his selection of a screen name, his comment was excellent. PornHub does not screen its users. Anyone at […]
Is Porn A Gateway Drug?
Looking back on the many years that I battled with sexual addiction, I sometimes wonder, ”Where did it all begin?” Was there some traumatic event that sparked it? When was I first exposed to sexual sin? What got me hooked? The answer is porn. It may have started innocently enough. I was a hormonal, curious […]
Become a Bookworm
“I cannot live without books” – Thomas Jefferson I believe the most underrated and under-appreciated way to improve your life is through books. I have been an avid reader my entire life. Both of my parents were readers and instilled that value in me. However, far too many men do not read at all. They […]
Screenless Sundays
Taking on the “Into The Wilderness” challenge is going to push you outside of the way the rest of the world operates. I often reference Romans 12 when it says, “Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think.” We […]