Masculinity

Want To Start A Family…Do These 5 Things NOW

After almost 15 years, I have an amazing marriage, but it wasn’t always that way. There are so many things I could have done to make my marriage great from the start. I want you to learn from my mistakes. Here are FIVE things every single guy should do BEFORE Marriage.. 1. FIND YOUR MISSION: Continue reading “Want To Start A Family…Do These 5 Things NOW”

God Wants Men To Do These 5 Things

There are 100’s of passages of Scripture on the role of men in the church, family and society. But there’s only ONE passage that sums it all up. “Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong. Let all that you do be done in love.” 1 Corinthians 16:13-14 While other passagesContinue reading “God Wants Men To Do These 5 Things”

The DOs and DON’Ts of Battling Porn Addiction

In overcoming my own 15+ year battle with porn and addiction, and in helping dozens of other men finally quit porn, I’ve learned quite a bit about what works and what doesn’t work when you’re trying to quit porn. Here’s some DO’s and DON’Ts for quitting porn. DO: Establish Routine Routine is crucial to quittingContinue reading “The DOs and DON’Ts of Battling Porn Addiction”

Stop Touching Yourself!

Alright guys. It’s time for a tough talk. The real problem with Porn Addiction isn’t Porn. It’s Masturbation. STOP TOUCHING YOURSELF! When you’re addicted to Porn/Masturbation/Orgasm (PMO), what you’re really addicted to is dopamine. There is nothing inherently addictive about porn itself. It’s not a drug. it’s not a chemical. It has no addictive qualitiesContinue reading “Stop Touching Yourself!”

When To Talk To Your Kid About Porn

One of the most common questions I get is, “At what age should I talk to my son about porn?” The fact that you’re even willing to talk about it at all is itself a step in the right direction. This is an essential conversation that must take place. The question is WHEN? I believeContinue reading “When To Talk To Your Kid About Porn”

How To Confess Your Porn Addiction

So, you have come to the realization that porn and sex addiction is a problem in your life. Maybe you’ve even started working with a coach to help guide you through the process of breaking free. What’s next? One of the hardest parts of recovery, but arguably the most necessary is confession. Healing requires confession. Continue reading “How To Confess Your Porn Addiction”

How To Break The Relapse Cycle

Tell me if this sounds familiar… You realize that porn is a problem in your life and you decide to quit. You are motivated and determined to stop this. This is finally the time that you’re going to quit for good. It starts ok. You get a few days in. Things are going great. YouContinue reading “How To Break The Relapse Cycle”

Introducing the Into The Wilderness Podcast

After months of preparation and hard work, I’m excited to announce the launch of the Into The Wilderness Podcast with Timothy Reigle! I am taking my ministry of battling men’s porn addiction and expanding it into other topics that modern Christian men need to talk about but where there are few spaces to do so. Continue reading “Introducing the Into The Wilderness Podcast”

Can You Handle The Truth?

In the film A Few Good Men, starring Tom Cruise and Jack Nicholson, there’s a famous scene where Cruise’s character, Navy JAG attorney Lt. Daniel Kaffee is questioning Nicholson’s character, Marine Colonel Nathan Jessup during a court martial trial for the murder of a Marine. In the scene, Kaffee demands that Jessup tell the truth,Continue reading “Can You Handle The Truth?”

How I Quit Porn: My Story of Recovery, Redemption, and Renewal

It was a long road that lead me to becoming the man I am today. I’ve been through darkness, despair, and depression. I’ve faced trials, tests, and troubles. Yet, I came out on top of it all. This is the story of how I got unbelievably deep in to a devastating PornContinue reading “How I Quit Porn: My Story of Recovery, Redemption, and Renewal”